We live in a time where good work is rewarded with more work. Not appreciation, but with more burden and an increase in shift timings. When this happens, we often tend to lose sight of the bigger picture and forget to say no when it’s necessary. To make your work life a little easier, we give you 5 tips to help you say no politely at work!
1. Negotiate your way out a sure fire way of yes!
“Are you okay to do this meeting for me?” “Can you finish this task for me?” “Could you please get in touch with that annoying client? I just can’t.” Are these some of the questions you find yourself saying yes to even if you don’t have the time to? Then it’s time to stop, evaluate and figure out what is the most important task at hand. Even you can’t say no directly, negotiate your way around the yes to a maybe. Try saying things like “I could but maybe you could finish this report I’m working on.” This way, you can get your work done AND help the other person!
2. Honesty is the best policy!
Being honest really does go a long way in earning brownie points at work! Make your reason for saying no in a clear manner. Be direct, straight and to the point, without adding a lot of drama to the story. If you are a nervous talker, then it would help if you wrote down the points before hand and rehearsed it to yourself. This way, you are prepared and ready for the task ahead!
3. It does not accomplish your goal
When you take on more than you can accomplish at one time, the end goal is extremely ineffective. Not only does your work get affected, but the extra work you take on doesn’t get the desired result either. When you receive a proposal that may be a distraction, the best thing to do is hear it out fully and then directly and politely explain why it’s not a fit for you and possibly even for you at this particular time.
4. Take time to consider the project
Determine how much time is needed for the project. Then look at how much work you have on your plate. Evaluating the two will help on giving you an idea of what task is more important thereby helping you. While this may sound a little selfish, it is extremely important to look at how advantageous the extra task is for you as an employee. Weigh the pros and cons and only then say yes if you truly think it is going to be effective.
5. End the conversation with confidence
After you’ve done the hard work of saying “no” to something, make sure you end the conversation in a way that doesn’t leave room for further prodding. For example, after you end the conversation, you could sign off by saying something like “Thank you for understanding!” This way, your colleagues and your employers know that you only say yes when they really count and don’t say it for anything and everything!
Follow these five simple steps and help create a successful and friendly environment for yourself and your colleagues at work. Make work not just a strategically growing place but also a fun place to be at!